Sometime in the mid-80's my family sat down to Thankksgiving dinner in full regalia - due to my irrational need to meet some fancy expectation I had conjured up in my imagination! So Dado put on his tuxedo, Mojo pulled out the fine china, and everyone enjoyed a special holiday dining experience at my request (some might say, insistence):
Here we are, 25 years later and it seems I have shed all my crazy expectations for the perfect family holiday meal (well, my husband might not say that ALL have been shed!):
No fancy attire - heck the boys weren't even clean! - and no fancy cutlery. But somehow, our family managed to thoroughly enjoy our day together and remain grateful for so many things... ~
Dad spent most of the day watching football in his pjs:
photo courtesy of Sam
And the boys tore up the house to make various forts, prisons, and a school for all their plush toys - which all eventually degenerated into a pile of pillows at the bottom of the stairs for jumping into! photo courtesy of Sam
Perhaps my favorite part of the day was the FFF (forced family fun) that I imposed on the crew at dinner (see the note about crazy expectations above). The boys all played along graciously and I think they even found it kind of fun... and so, here are the results of the Thankgiving ABCs: OUR FAMILY IS THANKFUL FOR:
Asparagus
Brothers
Cheesecake
Deer
Education
Fall
Granparents
Home
Icicles
Jets
Kisses
Leaves
Mommy
Nice
Open space
Pigs
Quizzes
Rolls
Ski season
Turkey
Ukeleles
Venus Flytraps
Winter
X Rays
You
Zebras
And I am grateful for my family - both at home and extended - for their seemingly neverending generosity and understanding when it comes to how I see the world!
Hope you all had a heart-warming holiday