Cancelled

So... just when I thought I had successfully managed my annual maximum amount of bad travel Karma (see Christmas trip 2016) the Universe decided it was time for another upset...

brief background:

When my dear friend of 20 years started suggesting last fall that it was due time for us to get together (she brought her family to the States for a visit in 2012) I knew it was our turn to pay her & her family a visit in France! So I bit the bullet in January and purchased 3 tickets to Paris. Needless to say, this was a much anticipated family vacation!

current situation:

Apparently, travel restrictions to most European countries follow the Schengen Visa policy in the EU - who knew?! For the country of France, policy states that a US passport must be valid for 90 days beyond the traveler's departure from that country. Well, Hamp's & Sam's passports are due to expire exactly 70 days beyond our scheduled departure from France. 

Therefore - we were not allowed to fly.

Holding back tears and trying desperately to understand the situation, I listened carefully to my very helpful and empathetic Delta gate agent as she tried to assist me. What I gathered as my choices were two-fold:

1) Accept Delta's generous offer to rebook our flights for a mere $900 change fee (they were willing to waive the $9,000 in fare difference!) and try to fly out Tuesday. Meanwhile, stay in Denver for the weekend, and when the regional passport office opened Monday morning try to procure emergency renewals for both passports (at 3x the normal renewal fee) all the while hoping to get the renewals in time to make Tuesday's rebooked flight. 

2) eat the tickets and try again another day - once boys' passports were renewed properly, of course!

As I stood at the counter with weepy and worried kids, the gate agent waited patiently for me to decide on the spot if I was going to throw the next 3 days of our lives into mass chaos and panic.... or walk away. 

Now... know that I LOVE France. I love Paris; I love the cheese, the wine and the croissants; I love the language; I love the culture; I love the architecture and the landscape. But above all, I love my friend and her family. To walk away from seeing them was heartbreaking. And so to Peggy - I am so, so deeply sorry. 

When I told the gate agent through sobs that we would cancel the trip and thanked her for trying to help, we hugged it out and then she said something interesting. She took my hand and said: "You know, this is a crazy world. God works in mysterious ways. Perhaps you were not meant to go on this trip."

So..... I spent the next 4 hours in the car driving home thinking about that idea. If I wasn't meant to go on this trip then there must be something good to come out of it. Perhaps Sam will get his triple back-hand-spring back-tuck because he gets to go to gymnastics this week. Or maybe Hamp will find his phone!?! I am sure they will both play with their friends and make great summer memories that will last a lifetime. In the meantime, I will be on the lookout for good things happening..... heaven knows I could use some good karma my way!!!