Womens March

Last Saturday, I marched.

I did not go to the march with feelings of great resolve or engagement, or a need to be heard (or with anything to even say!)

I did go to support my friend, who simply wanted to be a part of history and exercise her right to free speech and assembly.

Leading up to the event, I was often asked "Why are you marching?"

I was surprised that there were women my age who didn't see the point in making any public demonstration for equality and civil rights - they didn't have any personal experience being discriminated against so for them it was an unnecessary display.
I was also surprised at my own hesitation to feel inspired to rally.
But when some of the kids asked me incredulously why I would need to demonstrate, going so far as to add "Don't you already have equal rights?".... I realized how to reply:

I am marching to make sure equality is never taken for granted.

While the event was an interesting and positive experience, I question its effectiveness in creating real change. Perhaps it simply served as a catalyst for some people to be more conscientious in how they treat others. Perhaps it encouraged some people to vote, or campaign, or research, or help. Mostly I think it served as a visual for the community to see that there are many people who support inclusivity and empowerment not only for women, but for everyone.

And after some days' reflection, it is actually pretty satisfying to know that I have been a part of something bigger than myself.

Cousin Christmas

We spent a wonderful week in Mississippi with the Hightower family!
Despite flash floods and a broken collarbone (poor Uncle Taylor!) we managed to soak up every moment of good family time - whether over delicious meals or board games or at the movies or in the back yard! Christmas was sweet and easy and full of smiles and unexpected treasures. The best part was watching the cousins all together - the 5 big cousins have always been great playmates, but their love and care for baby Charlotte is the sweetest.

Thank you Yaya & Papa for a wonderful week!

in between moments

The main goal was simple: get to Denver, fly direct into New Orleans, and meet up with family.

But I didn't want to get so focused on our destination that we missed an opportunity to enjoy the trip.

So we made the most of our 2 day journey to Mississippi....

First, we got to Denver a day early to meet up with one of my dearest friends and her family from ATL who were coming to Colorado for a family ski vacation (so cool!). While I was sad I didn't get to play in the snow with them, we did all get to experience our first professional hockey game together! In one evening we became devoted CO Avalanche fans for certain! The stadium was full and despite the 2-1 loss to the Chicago Blackhawks, we were totally impressed with the spectacle and the sport.



... and how did we not know before now that the mascot for our very own Colorado Avalanche is Bernie, the St. Bernard?!!!
We were so excited to meet him - and he confirmed our status as new Avs fans!


The next morning we saw our friends off to their epic Colorado ski vacation and had lots of time to kill... so we decided to wander downtown Denver. We were pleasantly surprised by several little highlights, including not one but two awesome candy stores, a traditional outdoor German Christmas Market, a sports store (with lots of tempting Avs paraphernalia!) and a quick stop for a chilly game of chess! We took the train from Union Station and with still more extra time before our flight, we made sure to stop by the free ice skating rink at the Denver airport!



The next morning, we had a few hours to walk around the French Quarter in New Orleans before meeting up with family! From Canal Street to Jackson Square and down Bourbon Street - the boys got just a glimpse of the amazing culture - sights, sounds, tastes and people - that makes this city so exciting and special!


There were so many moments in a 48-hour span of fortunate sweet reunions and city tours and planes, trains and automobiles that I just had to acknowledge how much I enjoy traveling with Hamp & Sam - they are always so open to new things and exploring new places (although not so much new foods!) and I appreciate how well they are able to live in the moment.

Here's to many more journeys in 2019!